The Self-Love Revival
✦ A 12-Week Live Virtual Program for Women ✦
✦ A 12-Week Journey to Feeling Safe, Seen & Fully Yourself in Relationships ✦
For the woman who gives love freely — but has forgotten how to receive it.
For the one who knows her patterns but can't stop repeating them.
For the healer, the giver, the one who disappears in relationships.
✦90-minute live sessions~ Weekly virtual container~ Trauma-informed~ Somatic & breathwork-based ✦
✦This is your 12-week invitation to come home — for good✦
✦ You Are Not Alone ✦
This Course Was Created for You If…
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You give and give in relationships — but secretly feel unseen, unheard, and emotionally exhausted.
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You've done the therapy, the journaling, the healing retreats — but something still feels stuck in your body.
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You know your patterns intellectually, but you can't seem to stop repeating them.
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You shrink yourself, people-please, or lose your voice trying to keep the peace
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You crave deep, authentic connection — but intimacy also terrifies you.
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A part of you wonders: Is it even safe to be fully myself and still be loved?
✦ If your heart said yes to even one of these — you are exactly who this course was created for ✦
✦ The 12-Week Transformation ✦
Imagine Who You Become in 12 Weeks
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A regulated nervous system you can trust — so love no longer feels threatening to your body
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The courage and language to be fully seen — without performing, shrinking, or disappearing
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A personalized Revival Blueprint — your daily, embodied self-love practice built to last a lifetime.
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Deep clarity on your attachment patterns and the compassionate tools to heal them at the root.
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Boundaries that feel like self-love, not self-defense — and a voice you're no longer afraid to use
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The unshakeable knowledge that you are worthy of love — especially your own
This isn't a course about information.
It's a 12-week embodied return to yourself
✦ Your Facilitator ✦
Brenda Kay Rodriguez CHT, M.A.
Spiritual Counselor & Breathwork Facilitator · Santa Cruz, CA
Brenda has spent over 2 decades walking alongside women in their most tender and transformational moments — through grief, identity loss, relationship wounds, and the long journey back to self.
As a spiritual counselor and certified breathwork facilitator, she weaves together nervous system science, attachment theory, somatic awareness, and spiritual wisdom into experiences that don't just inform — they transform.
She believes that the body holds the truth our minds try to protect us from — and that the breath is the most direct path home to ourselves. Her work has helped hundreds of women feel safer, freer, and more fully themselves.
The Self-Love Revival 12-Week Course is her most comprehensive offering to date — a full transformational container that takes women from self-abandonment to self-authorship.
"The most radical act of love you will ever commit is choosing yourself — again and again and again."
✦ How the Program Works ✦
A Live, Intimate Weekly Container
This is not a self-paced course you consume alone. The Self-Love Revival is a live, relational experience — because healing in relationships happens through connection, not just content.
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Book Your Discovery Call
Begin with a complimentary 90-minute discovery call with Brenda. This is a sacred, unhurried conversation to explore where you are, what you're ready for, and whether this container is the right fit for you. There is no pressure — only presence.
✦ Complimentary — No Obligation ✦
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Show Up Weekly for 90 Minutes
Each week, you meet live with Brenda in a private virtual session — 90 minutes of teaching, somatic practice, breathwork, deep reflection, and real-time integration. Every session is tailored to exactly where you are in your journey
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Secure Your Spot & Set Your Schedule
Once you decide to move forward, you'll choose your investment path and lock in your designated weekly session time with Brenda. Your 90-minute weekly time slot is yours for the full 12 weeks — consistent, protected, and held
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Transform Week by Week
Between sessions, you work with your weekly workbook module, somatic audio practices, and embodiment challenges. Brenda is with you in the container — and the work compounds week by week into lasting, embodied change.
What Makes This Different
This is not a group program or a pre-recorded course.
Each 90-minute session is live, one-container, and built around YOU
— your nervous system, your wounds, your relationships, your revival.
Brenda shows up fully with you every single week
✦ The Curriculum ✦
Your 12-Week Journey — Week by Week—
Each week combines teaching, somatic practice, breathwork, reflection, and community
— so transformation happens in your body, not just your mind
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Learning Objectives
✦Orient fully to the course structure, community agreements, and your own intentions
✦Create a personalized sacred container for your 12-week journey — a ritual space, an altar, a practice rhythm
✦Establish your nervous system baseline through a guided somatic self-assessment
✦Write your Opening Love Letter — a snapshot of where you are now, to read at graduation
✦Identify your primary intention: What does your soul most need from this experience?
What's Included
Welcome video + orientation guide, somatic baseline assessment, sacred container ritual guide, community introductions, journaling prompt
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Learning Objectives
✦Understand the mind-body connection and why healing in relationships must include the body
✦Learn to decode 5 key somatic signals — sensation, breath, tension, temperature, impulse
✦Practice 3 foundational grounding techniques: feet-on-earth, breath anchor, and the 5-sense reset
✦Begin a daily 2-minute Body Check-In practice and track patterns across the week
✦Identify which areas of your body hold your relational stress, grief, or longing
What's Included
Somatic foundations video, body signal decoder worksheet, 3 guided grounding audio practices, daily body check-in tracker, journaling prompt
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Learning Objectives
✦Understand the Autonomic Nervous System and Polyvagal Theory (Dr. Stephen Porges) in accessible, non-clinical language
✦Map your own personal nervous system ladder — your triggers, your warning signs, your shutdown signals
✦Understand neuroception: how your body scans for safety or threat in relationships without your conscious awareness
✦Learn and practice the Settling Breath — your foundational regulation tool
✦Identify the relational patterns that live in each nervous system state
What's Included
Nervous system masterclass video, personal safety ladder mapping exercise, Settling Breath guided audio, nervous system in relationships workbook pages, live Q&A session
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Learning Objectives
✦Build a personalized regulation toolkit of 5+ somatic tools (shaking, humming, cold water, movement, bilateral tapping, extended exhale, and more)
✦Understand co-regulation — how safe relationships literally regulate your nervous system — and how to seek it wisely
✦Practice applying regulation tools in simulated relationship scenarios
✦Learn to identify your personal "return to safety" cues — the signals that tell you you've landed
✦Begin a nervous system journaling practice to track your weekly patterns
What's Included
Regulation toolkit video + reference card, 5 somatic audio practices, co-regulation guide, nervous system journal template, integration exercise
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Learning Objectives
✦Understand attachment theory (John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth) and how early caregiving becomes the blueprint for adult love
✦Identify your primary and secondary attachment style through a guided self-assessment
✦Compassionately trace your attachment patterns back to their origins — without blame or shame
✦Understand how your attachment style shows up in romantic relationships, friendships, and professional dynamics
✦Begin the practice of the Inner Child check-in — a somatic bridge to your younger self
What's Included
Attachment masterclass video, guided attachment style self-assessment, attachment origins reflection workbook, inner child somatic practice audio, live group session
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Learning Objectives
✦Identify your dominant wound(s): Abandonment, Rejection, Trust, or Unworthiness
✦Understand the fear, pattern, and somatic signature of each wound — how it lives in the body
✦Practice wound-specific somatic antidotes to begin releasing stored trauma responses
✦Begin a reparenting practice: learning to give yourself the love, safety, and consistency you needed
✦Write a compassion letter to your younger self — the one who developed these wounds to survive
What's Included
Core wounds masterclass video, wound identification + somatic mapping worksheet, 4 wound-specific guided meditations, reparenting practice guide, compassion letter template, journaling prompts
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Learning Objectives
✦Identify your dominant relational mask(s): The Performer, The Accommodator, or The Self-Sufficient One
✦Understand the function of each mask — what it protected, what it costs you now
✦Explore the fear beneath the mask: What do you believe will happen if people see the real you?
✦Practice micro-acts of unmasking in low-risk contexts — one honest feeling, one real need, one unedited moment
✦Begin distinguishing between the mask-self and the true self through somatic body mapping
What's Included
Masks masterclass video, mask identification + cost assessment worksheet, unmasking practice guide, somatic true-self body scan audio, journaling prompts, community share circle
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Learning Objectives
✦Apply the SEEN Framework (Speak, Embody, Engage, Name) as a daily communication practice
✦Practice naming feelings with precision — moving beyond "fine," "stressed," and "overwhelmed"
✦Make one real, authentic request in an actual relationship this week — and debrief the experience
✦Learn to receive being seen without deflecting, minimizing, or performing gratitude
✦Practice the Courage Breath — a breathwork tool to access authentic expression in the body
What's Included
SEEN Framework masterclass video, feelings vocabulary expansion guide, Courage Breath guided breathwork audio, authentic expression practice scenarios, live integration Q&A, journaling prompts
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Learning Objectives
✦Distinguish boundaries from walls — understand how both protect and how both limit
✦Identify your personal boundary patterns: collapser, enforcer, or oscillator
✦Recognize the somatic cues of a boundary crossing — before it becomes resentment
✦Practice speaking a boundary from love, not fear — with a real script and a real scenario
✦Understand the difference between people-pleasing and genuine generosity
What's Included
Boundaries masterclass video, personal boundary pattern assessment, somatic boundary cue guide, boundary language script templates, partner/community practice exercise, journaling prompts
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Learning Objectives
✦Practice speaking hard truths with love and precision — without attack or collapse
✦Understand conflict as an act of intimacy, not a threat to the relationship
✦Learn a simple repair framework for after rupture: Acknowledge, Own, Reconnect
✦Cultivate the capacity to hold space AND be held simultaneously — the hallmark of secure relating
✦Practice equanimity in difficult conversations through somatic preparation techniques
What's Included
Sacred speech masterclass video, truth-telling practice script guide, repair framework worksheet, holding space + being held somatic practice, live hot-seat coaching session, journaling prompts
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Learning Objectives
✦Complete a Wholeness Inventory — a full assessment of where you are now vs. Week 1
✦Clarify your top 5 core values and understand how to use them as a compass in relationships
✦Practice values-aligned decision-making in one real relationship scenario
✦Integrate all 10 weeks of tools into a personalized Revival Blueprint — your long-term self-love plan
✦Begin composing your Closing Love Letter — the response to the one you wrote in Week 1
What's Included
Wholeness inventory assessment, values clarification + compass exercise, Revival Blueprint template, integration masterclass video, journaling prompts, community celebration share
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✦Complete and share (optionally) your Closing Love Letter — a testament to your 12-week journey
✦Write and speak your Revival Commitments — three promises you make to yourself going forward
✦Receive a live closing breathwork ceremony led by Brenda — a full-body integration experience
✦Graduate with your complete Revival Blueprint, regulation toolkit, and SEEN practice
✦Celebrate yourself and your community — this is your homecoming
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Closing Love Letter ritual, Revival Commitments ceremony guide, live closing breathwork ceremony (recorded), graduation workbook, lifetime access to all materials, closing blessing from Brenda
Inside Every 90-Minute Weekly Session:
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Somatic opening & nervous system check-in
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Reflection, journaling & integration time
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Teaching & framework for the week's theme
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Live coaching & real-time Q&A with Brenda
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Guided breathwork or somatic practice
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Weekly embodiment to carry into your life
✦ Your Complete Course Bundle ✦
Everything You Receive When You Enroll
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12 Live 90-Minute Virtual Sessions
One private, live session per week for 12 weeks at your designated time. Recorded for your personal replay. This is your held, sacred weekly container
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Guided Somatic & Breathwork Practices
A complete library of body-based practices to use between sessions — so the work continues to move through you all week long
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The Self-Love Revival Workbook
100+ pages of reflection prompts, exercises, frameworks, and practices — your written companion for the full 12-week journey
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Weekly Embodiment Challenges
One brave, real-world action each week to anchor your learning in actual relationships and lived experience
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Session Recordings — Yours to Keep
Every live session is recorded and shared with you, so you can revisit any moment of your journey whenever you need a revival
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Access to Course Materials
Your workbook, somatic audios, and session recordings are yours — to return to whenever you need to come home to yourself
✦ Your Investment ✦
One Price. Complete Transformation.
Every woman receives the full 12-week experience — nothing held back, nothing tiered. This is the whole container.
Your journey begins with a conversation.
The Self-Love Revival
— 12-Week Course—
Pay In Full - Best Value
$2,750
One-time investment
✦ You Save $250 ✦
~~~or choose a payment plan~~~
Flexible Payment Plan
$3,000
Split into convenient installments
~~~Choose Your Payment Rhythm~~~
12 weekly payments of $250
3 monthly payments of $1,000
Payment plan details confirmed at checkout.
Investment is confirmed following your complimentary discovery call
No payment is collected until you are ready to say yes
“This is not an expense. It is the most important investment you will ever make — in yourself."
Ready to explore if this is right for you?
Book your complimentary 90-minute discovery call — Brenda personally holds space for every conversation.
✦ What Women Are Saying ✦
Here's what becomes possible.
“Working with Brenda has been transformative! I’ve become the best version of myself through healing, finding my inner strength, and learning to honor myself first. Her guidance has led me to embrace my empowerment”
Terri R ~Salinas, CA.
“Working with Brenda has been one of the most important decisions and investments I’ve ever made for myself…she continues to expand her practice by integrating healing modalities in a way that is personalized, intuitive, and deeply supportive… She empowered me with tools and practices that I continue to use long after our sessions. I can’t recommend her highly enough…”
Amanda L~ Los Gatos, Ca.
“I have greatly benefited from my sessions with Brenda. Her spiritual & authentic presence has helped me to grow personally and has led me to a greater understanding of myself and my relationships with others. Our work together has been invaluable in releasing past traumas and has helped me realize & visualize my desires in this life”
Janis S~ Santa Curz, Ca.
✦ Your Questions, Answered ✦
Frequently Asked Questions
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The Self-Love Revival is a live, weekly virtual program. Each week you and Brenda meet for a private 90-minute session at your designated time — live, intimate, and built entirely around you. Sessions are conducted via video call and are recorded for your personal replay library
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Your 90-minute weekly session is the heart of the program. In addition, plan for 30–45 minutes of workbook reflection and a short daily somatic or breathwork practice (5–15 minutes). The weekly embodiment challenge is designed to weave into your real life — not add to your to-do list
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Everything begins with your complimentary 90-minute discovery call. This is a real, unhurried conversation with Brenda — not a sales pitch. You'll explore where you are, what you're ready for, and whether this container is aligned for you. Book your call using the link on this page.
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This is a private, one-on-one container. Each of your 12 weekly sessions is held exclusively between you and Brenda — so every session is tailored to exactly where you are, what's arising, and what your nervous system and soul need that week
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Your weekly session time is set together during your discovery call — a consistent day and time that works for your life. Life happens, and Brenda works with you if a reschedule is ever needed. Your container is protected and held for the full 12 weeks
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The full investment is $3,000, with a $250 savings when you pay in full ($2,750). Flexible payment plans are available — 12 weekly payments of $250 or 3 monthly payments of $1,000 — discussed and confirmed following your discovery call. No payment is collected until you are ready and aligned
You have been waiting long enough.
The version of you who feels safe, seen, and fully herself in relationships — she's not far away. She's been waiting for you to choose her. This is that moment.
The Self-Love Revival begins the moment you say yes to yourself.
Your 90-minute discovery call is free, intimate, and completely without pressure. It's simply a conversation — and sometimes, a conversation changes everything
"The revival has already begun."
The Self-Love Revival — 12-Week Online Course
Created with love by Brenda Rodriguez · Spiritual Counselor & Breathwork Facilitator